Why not be an optimist? A little fun never hurt anyone. However, there is one crucial thing to remember as you begin to unwind�� video captures everything for posterity. Avoid getting on a first name basis with the martini bartender. A little drink may loosen you up, but a lot of drink will undo you. Even if you croon like Patsy Cline or cut a rug like Ginger Rogers, there�s nothing worse than a video record of you dirty dancing the macarena in your stocking feet with the bride�s second cousin Merv from Montana.